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Relationship by Design Program

This carefully curated program helps couples embody pleasure, notice and communicate their desires, learn erotic touch and cultivate their relationship on their terms. It is an excellent approach to creating a stronger foundation for intimacy and exploring more about their pleasure and fantasies within their relationships.


There are 7 weekly 90-minute sessions and each is 1:1 with me via zoom. These sessions help you to develop things like: a clearer understanding of embodied pleasure, noticing your desires, giving and receiving, a mindful erotic practice, mindful masturbation, exploration of your fantasies and how to communicate them and erotic massage and touch as a couple.

A intake form must be completed followed by a discovery call to see if we are a good fit for each other. If typing/writing the intake form is not accessible to you, please let me know and I can offer a different method.

While we are working together, email support is available to check-in and support accountability.

1-2 months after completing the program, you will EACH be welcome to book a 30-minute check-in chat with me.

Session Breakdown

Sessions 1 + 2 combined = Embodied Pleasure
We start with introductions, container setting and agreement making. Some fun somatic assessments are offered and we have a break halfway through. We then shift into an introduction to noticing pleasure in your body and experiencing the different types of pleasure that are noticed.

Session 3 = Consent & Noticing Your Desires
What are YOUR desires? What is your body telling you it wants? What is it telling you about your limits? What is the difference between accepting and allowing? Taking and serving? We explore different types of receiving and giving through touch and somatic exercises.

Session 4 = Pleasure, Play, Presence and Mindful Masturbation
Exploring what masturbation is to you. How do you self pleasure? We dive into what creating a Mindful Erotic Practice may look like and explore other ways to experience pleasure.

Session 5 = Rediscovering Fantasies & YOUR Relationship
We discuss the "Charmed Circle" and how that can impact our sex, sexuality and relationships. You get an invitation to explore your specific desires and fantasies and learn ways to share this with your partner.

Sessions 6 = Erotic Massage and Touch for Couples
Learning more about erotic touch and massage for couples. Invitations and information on how to actively receive with breathe and movement, and how to be an attentive and willing giver.

Sessions 7 = Client directed session or overflow from previous sessions and Harvesting, Savoring and Reflections
We can cover any topics that you enjoyed, try something new or use this time to harvest, savor and reflect. The choice is yours!


$900 / couple

**I offer this to a limited amount of couples at a time**
**Additional people welcomed for $30/person per session**
**Sliding scale is available to those in need upon request**
**Pricing does not include GST/HST for Canadian clients**

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Do you have questions?

Email me directly HERE and we can chat more about the Relationship by Design Program!


Taara has been a dream facilitator in our somatic journey. Being both new to the process and values of a somatic practice, it could have felt overwhelming or intimidating, instead it felt intriguing/liberating/enlivening... getting to learn about myself and my partner in new ways feels amazing. After ten years of partnership, to be able to have a deeper level of understanding and intimacy with one another... feels incredible. Taara led us over a 7-session journey (if available go for the 9 session, we wish we had!). She was so compassionate, encouraging each of us, and has a beautiful way of holding space for this type of deeply intimate work. I can't recommend her enough!! We're still riding high from our journey with her, and hope to continue it to new levels in the future! -E&C

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