Offerings & Services

1:1 Coaching Sessions
(for individuals, couples, poly-pods)

One of the biggest challenges people face as erotic beings is the ability to have someone to talk to when questions come up, a certain experience happens, issues arise or when they need help working through something specific. I offer private coaching sessions to hold space and provide people with a counter-normative approach towards getting the support they desire. My sessions offer folks a chance to open up and explore anything surrounding the topics of relationships, sex, dating, gender, alternative relationships and their sexuality. I have a wide array of tools and somatic practices to guide clients through experiences within a trauma-informed, safe-enough container. If you're curious about working 1:1 with me, please click learn more below complete the intake form.

Relationship by Design Program

This carefully curated program helps couples (and poly pods) cultivate playful, pleasurable relationships. It is an excellent way to create a stronger foundation for intimacy and recommended for anyone looking to navigate non monogamy. There are 7 weekly 75-minute sessions and each one is 1:1 with me via an online platform. The first 6 sessions are foundational building and give you tools, fun hands-on somatic exercises, and homework to complete solo and together. The last session is client directed based on what we discovered during the first six sessions. These sessions help you to develop things like: a clear understanding of consent, giving and receiving, check-ins, a mindful erotic practice and an understanding of how to venture outside the ‘charmed circle’ of sexuality in a healthy, safe and sane way. I have limited space at this time, so if you are interested please click learn more below and complete the intake form so we can book a discovery call.

Boundary & Embodied Consent Coaching

Get better boundaries, overcome people pleasing, invite more intimacy and improve communication to your relationships, have hotter sexual experiences, notice what YOU need and desire. Boundary and embodied consent coaching offers exercises and tools for personal empowerment. If this is something you desire to learn more about please click learn more and complete the intake form.

Book Me for Workshops, Group Sessions,
Seminars & Webinars

Are you an event, adult club, adult resort or expo looking to offer an educational yet titillating workshop, group session, seminar or webinar to your guests? Let's chat! I am available for hire and offer a wide selection of topics to dive into both online and in-person. Please email me directly with your overview, date(s) and what you are looking for.

What is Somatic Sex Education & Sexological Bodywork?

I first learned about somatic experiencing during the height of the pandemic in 2020. My nervous system was dysregulated, previous traumas were percolating to the surface of my life and my mental health was in distress. I was recommended to a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and decided, "why not try it out?" My first session with this practitioner was like NOTHING I had experienced in all my years of traditional therapy. I immediately felt shifts in my body that I never had been able to grasp before.

Now that I had experienced the healing benefits somatic experiencing offered, a year later I decided to take the plunge and enroll with The Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education. THIS is what I had been waiting for my entire life! My passion for sex education coupled with somatic experiencing was my career calling and I am so happy my path led me to this point.

Somatic Sex Educators (SSE's) support people on their journey to sexual wholeness through body-based exercises and experiences designed to nurture and awaken the sensual self. We might coach breath, movement, body awareness, boundary setting, communication, experiential anatomy, sensate focus, massage, erotic trance, attunement and other body-based teachings about sex.  SSE is grounded in the science of neuroplasticity and informed by polyvagal theory. The modality is trauma-informed, and able to embrace the incredible diversity of neurology, gender and gender expression, with awareness of the impact of normative culture and privilege on people’s access to sexual expression.**

In addition, SSEs offer an inclusive, non-judgmental approach, regardless of race, sexual orientation, gender identity, or socioeconomic status.**

**prepared by Melody Joyce,

from the writing of Caffyn Jesse,

In the spirit of reconciliation, I acknowledge that I live, work and play on the traditional territories of the Blackfoot Confederacy (Siksika, Kainai, Piikani), the Tsuut’ina, the Îyâxe Nakoda Nations, the Métis Nation (Region 3), and all people who make their homes in the Treaty 7 region of Southern Alberta. I respect the histories, languages, and cultures of First Nations, Metis, Inuit, and all First Peoples of Canada, whose presence continues to enrich our community.